Nolan’s class has been working on and practicing for his graduation for a couple of weeks and we’ve been talking about it at home. Every night we practiced his petition. He seemed fine with it and excited about it, UNTIL the day before. He told me he didn’t want to do it. I was kind of a bad mom and played the “you need to do it in order to graduate from kindergarten” card. How awful I know. Didn’t work. Well, the day came. On the way home from daycare Nolan fell asleep in the car, so I knew he was really tired. Nolan + Tired = Disaster. We ate a snack because we were going to go out to eat after and it was time for him to get dressed. He didn’t want to. We had tears, we had a stomach ache, we had bribes……ugh. Poor guy.
I was at a lost. Him missing a concert I could deal with, but this was his kindergarten graduation – which I know doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it was with his class and they were celebrating their year. He has had such a great year too. I tried one last thing by giving him a lucky turtle. He had seen me give Connor and Jacob one for certain things. I told him to put it in his pocket and he could touch it when he got scared or nervous. It at least got him into the car.
I got him to the classroom and Mrs. L. talked to him and got him to put his gown on. I left because I thought it would be better without me there and went to go sit down. I looked back to see the class lined up and everything looked good to go. Well, the class came walking through the middle aisle of the crowd and there was no Nolan. I saw him standing in the back of the room. I went back to talk to him and he was just really sad. He was so nervous and just didn’t want to get up in front of people. I gave him a big hug and asked if he would go up there if I went and sat by him. He said yes, but everyone was going to stare at him. I said, no…they’ll be staring at me. ;) He smiled. After two songs, I finally got him up there and while the rest of the group was standing he sat and said I didn’t need to go up there with him. He’s the one sitting in the picture. I was just glad he got up there.
Then when it was his time to speak but he didn’t want to, so Mrs. L. had him stand by her and she read it. She was very cool about it and just kept going about the program.
Then it was Mrs. L.’s turn to talk to the class and Nolan went back up and joined them.
I think he started to forget things and he actually stood up and sang the last song with the class. It actually brought tears to my eyes. It’s hard…I get frustrated with him because I know he can do it, but at the same time feel so bad for him that he is so torn.
He walked up and got his diploma even.
The Kindergarten class of 2013!
Grandma and Grandpa were able to join us.

Nolan says if he had a girlfriend, it would be Preslee, but he doesn’t have one. ;) His friend Zach H.

I love this picture of Mrs. L. giving Nolan a hug and telling him that she knew he could do it and she was very proud of him. The second one is with the principal Mrs. H.

Nolan and Grandma reading a book he got from them at dinner.
Congrats Nolan. You worked hard and overcame that fear. I am proud of you for getting up there still, when that had to be hard in the middle of the program. I could see how relieved and proud you were of yourself after. We were very proud as well!